Intro.


Kris and Dave met 19 years ago while Kris was in college and Dave was on his first of several enlistments in the Navy. We have 4 beautiful kids. Lucas is 16 and he is the best big brother ever! He loves his brothers and sister. He has been waiting a very long time to be the "big brother".

William, Logan and Jessica were born Oct.25 2007 at 33 weeks and 5 days! They only spent 10 days in the NICU and came home on their big brother's birthday- Nov. 5 !! This blog will be about the ins and outs of our crazy life.

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Wednesday, October 8, 2008

A New Wrinkle

Well, Dave got a message today and it is NOT what we wanted! The message is basically submit a package to be considered for conversion to another rating or be administratively separated within 30 DAYS! We are very shocked to say the least. So instead of just giving him the shore duty here in Groton for the next 20 months until retirement (which he is due for anyway after back to back sea tours), the powers that be are making him get packages ready to change his rate and probably move us to a whole new duty station! I am just so upset right now. I think that this is an awful situation for Dave to be put in. He has done his duty for the Navy for the last 18 years without complaining and this is the thanks he gets! We have moved so many times and been apart for months during deployments and what is the end result - convert or you are out! Money is super tight so we really have no choice but for him to try to convert to stay in. He is understandably upset and is actively talking with people higher up his chain of command to try to understand what his options are at this point. I will update as soon as we know anything! Hope your day is going better than mine!

4 comments:

Momma said...

NICE! They want him to change his rating after 18 years! Gotta love this life ...

Nicole O'Dell said...

Decision makers don't get (or care) that there are real people affected by their decisions. I'm sorry you're having to deal with this!

Anonymous said...

What in the.......why now? They've been telling him for a long time now that he'd be able to stay in Groton, right?!! Oh man, I hope there is a quick resolution to this. Keep us posted!

Anonymous said...

Oh Kris, I hope something can be worked out so that you don't have to move! What a headache that would be. :(